Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Grey colored glasses are going out of style

I saw a meme on Facebook a few days ago that made me laugh. (Even though I hate memes with a passion) This year is going to be the year everyone was offended by everything. It's so true! Apparently, no one believes in the color grey anymore. 
I was taught growing up, through church, that there are not any grey areas. Everything is black or white. I think adults said this, misinterpreting what it actually meant. I do believe everything is black or white in terms of God's law, which has been set forth since before the beginning of earth. You either choose to follow the 10 Commandments, or you don't. 
However, when it comes to social and political issues, there are grey areas. Unfortunately, no one seems to believe that any more. You either support gays or you don't. You're either Christian or your not. You are conservative or liberal. You are racist, or you're not. You're going to allow in refugees or you're a hateful bigot. 
I wish some people would stop thinking that Republicans are hateful, rich, hypocritical bigots and that Democrats are liberal hippies who have no sense of reality.  

Gay Marriage : I'm for it. 
Personally: I don't believe homosexuality is natural by God's standard. I do believe true marriage is ONLY between a man and a woman. 
Politically: I do believe all men/women have the right to love whoever they want, and be married if they so choose. After all, this is a free country, and isn't it the Bible that talked about free will? No politician, or Christian, has the right to tell someone they can't marry the love of their life. 

Abortion: I'm against it. 
Personally and Politically: I am a mother by choice. I made the decision to procreate. Most women did too, otherwise they could have practiced abstinence. When you have sex, you take the risk. (Protected or not, as protection is not 100% effective.) If you were raped, you can still put the child up for adoption. That child could be a great scientist, someone who creates beautiful art. Either way, the fetus is the formation of a living child. To toss it out, is to devalue life. Using politics to rid yourself of what you consider your shame, embarrassment and a mistake is pathetic. What if your parents had aborted you? 

Refugees: I am against the idea of rushing them in here to meet some goal President Obama's administration has set. 
Personally: There are children out there. There have been a lot of amazing people come to America who were refugees, who changed the U.S. forever in a positive way. This included actors to scientists. I believe in helping all people from ALL races, faiths and walks of life. They NEED our help. I would love to see those children  sleeping in a safe, warm bed; instead of in the streets. What if that was my son? What if that was my husband? What if it was me? I want to feed the hungry, clothe the naked and support the poor, like most actual Christians. We believe in helping those in need, as quickly as possible. The U.S. has already helped 2,200 refugees. That's pretty amazing. Good for us, but yes, there are MANY more to help. Our work is not done.   
Politically: It doesn't make sense. The vetting process takes MORE THAN A YEAR at best. Even then, there are refugees who don't have enough background information available for the United Nations to vet them properly. I mean, heck, one of the terrorists who attacked Paris made it through a refugee processing center. If President Obama talks congress into letting in refugees too quickly, we as Americans, could be responsible for another 9-11. Yes, I am scared. Anyone who isn't, is fooling themselves. To rush this process could, and most likely would, be extremely dangerous. To allow 10,000 refugees in by the end of the year (President Obama's goal) would require the vetting process to be sped up. Then, by 2017 he wants to be letting in 100,000 a year. Now that is not only a dangerous risk, it's also unrealistic.


Thursday, November 12, 2015

When it comes to equality, complication is to be expected.

I'm ALL about equality. That said, this whole thing on the Mizzou campus is insane. That I think we can all agree on.
For the protesters side:
1. I have no idea what it's like to be in the African American minority. To say they are making it up or dramatizing in would be very presumptuous. Especially when the only thing I know about it, I've read on the news.
2. Many say these so called "incidents" probably never happened. I was a journalist once and still am at heart. I know how this works. Documentation may have existed once and disappeared, or it may never have existed at all on purpose, if Mizzou truly is a racist campus.
For the "this is based on lies" side:
1. Obviously the protesters haven't handled this the right way and many may have rushed to social media without being 100% sure on what they were posting.
2. It's not right that the president and maybe others will or have lost their jobs. They worked hard to get there. I don't believe one person's decisions can stamp out inequality (especially on a college campus.)
3. I am sure the campus has tried many things to battle racism and equality issues from diversity training, to more scholarships and job opportunities for African Americans, proud support of Michael Sam and allowing groups like the protesters to form on the MU campus.
4. The university cannot prevent all incidents. To believe it (or one person) can, is just insane. There are so many things that happen on a campus daily. There is no way the campus police or administration can find, report and battle them all.
*For those writing idiotic commentaries online:
Who cares if Johnathon Butler's dad is rich? That's the only detail I've seen. I haven't seen proof that this Eric Butler is his father. I haven't seen proof that he lived with his father and benefited from this man's money. I haven't seen anything demonstrating that he had every advantage.
Maybe his father didn't pay for his education. Maybe his dad doesn't pay for his healthcare. My parents have helped me a lot in the financial department. That said, they aren't rich, and they don't pay for all my expenses. They helped when I was in college, but I was a lucky one. I know many people whose parents say, "sorry kid you are on your own," or "I'm still going to raise my child without spending too much on them. They need to learn to work for everything themselves." (A good lesson to teach in my opinion.)
Even if he did have all these privileges, it doesn't mean he hasn't had to endure racism. That's the stupidest thing I have ever heard.

I could write a million things about this, but I think I'm done.